AYYAPPAN PILLAY
Moolayil Ayyappan Pillay, my maternal grandfather, is my favourite among the Thattanappallil doyens. I had lost my father when I was a two year old. I’ve very hazy memories of him. When it comes to my grandfather, I do have a clearer picture. He was about 80. He gave me so much love, shelter and patronage impacting my personality development early in life. I believe a strong bonding exists between us albeit he passed away when I was a child. He was a dignified and highly respected old man. An epitome of elegance and wisdom! As I’m growing older( 78 now) I feel I’ve inherited the silver grey hair on the dark scalp, a striking feature of my graceful and benign grandfather!
Moolayil Ayyappan Pillay (MAP) was born at Kattanam in Moolayil Veedu, a well known Nair Tharavad.
I had visited this house during my childhood along with my mother. I remember witnessing spectacular fireworks in the neighbouring church, an annual celebration (Perunnal) which used to attract large crowds.
MAP was a brilliant student. He earned double promotion twice in lower classes until he reached the final year in School. The centre for his final examination was in Trivandrum . He had a team of 10 people providing logistics and security for his arduous journey to Trivandrum. The team moved on foot with personal baggage, provisions and utensils loaded on a bullock cart from Kattanam to Kayamkulam. Thereafter they travelled by boat all the way to Trivandrum through canals and backwaters. On reaching the Capital City they set up camp near the School where the examination was to be held. It took almost three weeks for MAP to return home after this long journey.
On successful completion of his matriculation, MAP got an offer to serve the Travancore Kingdom in the Munsiff court, Adoor. It was a rare and coveted opportunity in those days to be an employee of the Maharaja of Travancore. Nair Community had enjoyed prominence as warriors in Travancore under the Maharajas which earned them handsome rewards particularly landed properties. They became landlords owning sizeable lands especially in the villages. Having landed a prestigious Government job MAP got married to Kalyani Amma of Thattanappallil, a well known Nair Tharavad in Peringanad, Adoor. It was a time when Nairs practiced matriarchy. MAP stayed in Thattanappallil Veedu for a couple of years. Later he moved to a new house built on a family property about one kilometre away. This house was named as Bhaskaravilasam Bungalow. It was built on a vast hillside stretch covered with casuarina trees. In fact the locals referred to this hillock as “ Parangam Vila” and continued with that name despite Bhaskaravilasam Bungalow having come into existence. Along with MAP, his younger brother Kesava Pillay ( KP) also moved to Adoor and stayed under the same roof. Whereas MAP was addressed as Valiachan or Valiappopan, KP used to be addressed as Kochachan or Kocappopan by children and grand children respectively. Kalyani Amma ( KA) was the lady in charge of Bhaskaravilasam, in accordance with the matriarchal order and tradition. Whilst she donned that hat, MAP assumed the position of the Head of the family. It was in tune with the changing times that the transition from Matriarchal to Patriarchal order took place in our family. It was a joint family headed by MAP. While MAP was busy with his Government job, it was KP who managed the sizeable holdings of land, farming and related activities. It was a perfect arrangement for smooth management of the household, properties and social engagements . MAP, KA and KP together raised five children, three girls and two boys all of whom grew up in a conducive and vibrant joint family environment. In fact, this branch of Thattanappallil earned the envy and admiration of not only the relatives but also the neighbours for its harmony and achievements. In retrospect, I can say, the importance given to education of children was the main reason for the shining success of our branch of Thattanappallil! And I’m glad and proud to observe that it continues as a tradition to date!
Bhaskaravilasam was a big house designed in the traditional Nalukettu style with sprawling verandas, columns, wooden storage space to stock the harvested rice and having several rooms. MAP used to relax on a big sofa on the front verandah.
The Bungalow and its surroundings bustled with people, livestock and paraphernalia. Cashew trees on the periphery, coconut plants, jackfruit trees, mango trees and vegetables closer to the Bungalow, giant hay stacks and cow dung plastered courtyards were some of the features that I remember.
MAP liked to talk to me on all kinds of topics and always answered my questions. I had started reading newspaper headlines in addition to the text book lessons. I had to read loud for my grandfather who used to check my comprehension and clear doubts. My mother was too keen on my education and she engaged Veluppillai Sir, the headmaster of the Primary School for tuitions. My grandfather insisted that the teaching should take place in his presence. Veluppillai Sir started the first class on the Varanda while MAP was watching from a distance. The teacher wanted me to write the letters and numbers that he called out on the sand spread in front of me. I got distracted after a while and the teacher got annoyed. He pressed my finger hard and I howled in pain. This alerted my grand father who walked up to us and asked me what had happened. I told him about the Sir hurting me. My grandfather asked Veluppillai Sir to get up and waving his walking stick asked the teacher to get out. Veluppillai was a terror In his School, unsparing for errant children and often rude to their parents but he didn’t dare to utter a word. The story doesn’t end there. My mother persuaded another teacher of the same school, Raman Nair to take up the tuitions. Raman Nair was friendly and nice towards me asking questions, narrating stories and chatting with me. After the first session he went up to MAP and told him that Unni was far ahead in studies and he didn’t require tuitions. He went further to advise that since I was about to turn five l should be joining School next year, directly in Class 3. My grandfather was so pleased that he rewarded Raman Nair Sir with Five rupees! He called my mother and directed not to engage any teacher in future. I got admission to Class 3 next year, thanks to my mother who took time to teach while my grandfather kept on pampering me!
Emulating MAP’s example of saving two years through double promotion, I could skip two classes right at the beginning of my school education!
MAP had his own “ Villu vandi” a specially designed bullock cart with a driver. He would go to the Treasury to collect his pension every month in this mode of transportation. Kids used to wait eagerly for his return to receive the toffees he brought for them. He would always ask the driver to take the children for a ride on the cart.
MAP had many friends for social interaction. I would like to mention two contemporaries from Adoor, E V Krishna Pillai and Munshi Paramu Pillai, both famous writers and satirists.
In sum I cherish the memories of my grandfather.
A strong influence in my formative years and a source of inspiration even today!